Why are people often offended by others, especially teenagers by their parents? The expectations put on children are so high that they think parents impose their own wills on them. They can't reach the imaginations, so something badly spoken hurts. Therefore, close relatives hate one another,thus sabotaging relationship. Some teenagers would isolate themselves by building walls around them to seek justice. However,it is harder to recover the kinship than to capture a strong city.
How should they respond differently?
When disputes happen, there will be no reasons accepted. Maybe to give in is a good way to solve the problem. If people can understand others, know love, know how to give but not take, they will forgive others.

人们为何被他人冒犯？尤其是少年被家长冒犯？对孩子的期望过高，孩子们觉得父母把意志强加于人。达不到期望值，说出的坏话就伤人。于是，亲属反目成仇，从而毁坏了关系。有的孩子为自己筑起了围墙，为了讨回公道而将自己隔绝。然而，恢复亲情比夺取坚城还要难。他们应该如何采取不同的应对方式呢？有争议的时候，没有人接受道理。也许退一步海阔天空，才能解决问题。如果能理解他人，懂得爱，知道如何给予而非索取，人与人就会互相宽容。